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On Bullet Journaling & How It Has Changed My (Planning) Life

When I decided to take a break from Instagram on last September, I had some more of my time spent on Youtube (which I wouldn't call an achievement LOL). But on one random day, this video showed up on one of the recommendation tabs and I didn't know why but I decided to have a good look at it.

My first reaction when I watched it was, "Why in the world did I not discover this earlier!". My closest friends will know already that I am an agenda/planner freak who would not hesitate to spend money on planner related things since I see them as life 'investments'. So seeing things like this for me is like a kid seeing a supermarket hall full of his favorite candies, oh the excitement!

After the video, I spent quite a lot of time browsing about bullet journal, how to start it, and I must say that I think it's some time worth spent! The next thing I did was ordering my first bullet journal and couldn't wait to start my very own.

Read: Bullet Journal: Getting Started.

One thing that almost everyone says about starting a bullet journal was to start it simple. So I took the advice and told myself to not try too hard to make my first journal super fancy looking on the beginning. After I got the hang out of it, I understand why they tell us to start it simple; because it is meant to be simple, to make your life easier, not try to make you even busier trying decorate it to look super fancy like what you see on Instagram or Pinterest (because really, some people's bullet journal decorating skill were just crazy good man, it's actually pretty hard not to get intimidated). But after all, bullet journal is not about a pretty journal, it's about a system that actually works!

So after around 3 months of my bullet journal attempt, I have a conclusion that.. I freaking love this bullet journal system and I don't think I'm going back to buying expensive planners ever again (well, hopefully LOL). If you're curious why I could say so, here are some of my personal reasons why I am low-key obsessed with my bullet journal and why I flipped through it more than 100 times a day:

1. I am an old soul who love classic old school handwritten-anything.
A lot of people are more into planner app and stuff but I've always been that boring person who loves to keep an agenda and writes about some insignificant details of my day (that no one would even bother to know). So if you're a #teamoldschool person like me, I bet you'll love bullet journaling too!

2. It doesn't necessarily needs to be expensive.
This is why I went with my MUJI notebook that didn't do harm to my wallet and it works perfectly fine! I see a lot of other people also use normal notebooks and the system works just as good. I used to be so faithful to my all time favorite ban.do agenda but sorry ban.do, I think we should part our ways.

3. Customizable and fuzz-free.
Though I love my old agenda, but the thing is that I'd have to stick on what they have provided me. Okay, I know they're pretty but I just couldn't do anything to the system. And the good thing about bullet journal is it lets me do whatever I wanted to and get rid what I didn't like. For an example, I realized I'm not really a big fan of monthly grid planner (because there's just too many blank spaces and decorating them is quite troublesome) and bullet journal introduced me to a more simple list-styled planner, which I happened to love a lot more and there are just too many other styles that we could still explore. Okay, the point is: you like it, you keep it; you hate it, you find other ways, as simple as that.

4. You don't have to make it fancy (but you can, if you want to).
The original idea of the bullet journal system was about rapid-logging, where you use certain keys/symbols to help you organize things. So, all you need was actually just a notebook and a pen and that's it. So I do think that this system is for everyone, even if you can't draw or aren't good in (or don't even want to bother about) decorating. But since I prefer mine to be a bit fancier (though I can't really really can't draw, my friend), I tried to do some small doodles here and there, which brings me to my next point...

5. It pushes me to be more creative.
Just like anyone else, I like everything pretty. But the problem is.. I can't say that I'm good in creating something that is pretty. But bullet journaling has motivated me to do some extra effort to make my journal a bit more presentable (though I don't really present it to anyone LOL). So far I've been enjoying the process and hopefully I'll be able to stick to it and maybe be better in it?

6. Start it any time of the year!
Don't you hate it when you decide to start a new agenda at some time of the year and all agendas available at stores are for 12 months then you feel like you'll waste some pages of the month that has passed if you buy it? This wouldn't be a problem in bullet journal system since you literally can start it any time you want, no need to wait for another month to begin, or even another year. You can start tomorrow right away, if you want to.

7. It is kinda therapeutic.
Maybe it's just me but I felt like spending one or two hours on the journal kinda brought me peace and make me feel at ease. It's good to be occupied for a few hours and I think the results are pretty satisfying (though what I tried to doodle or what didn't always end up looking good LOL).

Read: Thorough Guide to the Bullet Journal System

This system has also motivated me to be more productive in doing my tasks since I'm so pumped up to make sure that I marked my to-do lists as done. So, since the year is going to end soon and there is another new year coming, I'm sharing this good thing so you can add up another options to your planning system.

So, if you share the same excitement as I did when I first know about bullet journal system, besides some of the websites that I have linked, I have a few recommendations on people who have done nothing but right on bullet journaling. One of the most popular website on BuJo (yeah that's how we call our best friend) world is Boho Berry but my personal favorites are AmandaRachLee and MyLifeinaBullet, I literally copied a lot of their spreads because all so pretty one who can tahan!

Alright, I think I'm done with my blabbering and hopefully this post can somehow be useful to any of you who are reading. Thank you for reading and bhay!

All photos were taken by @stephjulius at @homeworkits, thank you big much!

New Girl in Town

The past weekend has become one of the most memorable weekends I've had this year, all thanks to my BEST FRIEND FOREVER (insert the most sarcastic smile here) who has kindly paid me a visit to this very humble home city of mine.

@etinmaretino arrived on a Friday night and we spent the rest of the weekend (not really) exploring the city and also trying some new food that even I had never tried before. I also introduced her to a couple good friends of mine, who you might have known from here, and I saw that hey got along pretty well, especially when it came to bullying me. Great job you guys did there.

So, last but not least, here's a little shout out to Miss Chaterine:

For another time I say and mean, thank you. Thank you for your time and all the effort to come all the way here for this (figuratively) little friend, also for letting me show you a big part of my current life phase and of course, thank you for the good times! Hope I catered you well enough this time and really looking forward for your 2nd, 3rd and n-th visit!

PS. Free flow of special homemade bread, special for you :)))

The Birth of Vibes

Since I decided to take a break from Instagram, I've been hoping that I'll be able to update more on the blog. Well, thankfully this time, I've got myself some pictures to share and memories to write here, so I think it was a pretty good start?

So.. me and two other friends (shout out to @charles_indrawan and @steakj) decided to celebrate our birthday together since our birth dates are pretty close to each other, so did we go to one of Pekanbaru's steak places and throw a dinner together along with some other good friends. They too managed to give us a surprise with a super yum chocolate pie. 

Good thing that Yongki just bought himself a super cool new (*cough cough* expensive) camera so it was the reason I was able to put some pretty decent pictures here. Well that also means, picture credit goes to his new cam and whoever was behind the lens :))

PS. In case anyone's wondering, Vibes stands for... wait for it... VIRGO BABES :))))

Twenty Six and Proud

Unlike last year where I prepared a super long post even way long before my 25th birthday, this year I didn't really have the intention to do so. As what I said on one of my last Instagram posts, this has yet to be the most unprepared yet the most prepared birthday I have ever had. You'll soon find out why.

What I normally did on days before my birthday was to give myself a good 'reflection session' on what I have learned and how if by any chance my life had experienced any major changes throughout the year, so I could have them written on this blog. But apparently, this has become a rare event due to my pretty hectic schedule, especially since this new semester started. I didn't even have the time to worry about getting older or anything, because all I cared about was getting my to-do lists done. Can't really say that it's a bad thing since at least I didn't have to go through those gloomy days just because I used to hate the idea of turning another year older.

At the other hand, I was fully prepared for this birthday since I took care of my own birthday cake, where I ordered it a week before and picked it up myself (because in this family, usually I was the one who was in charge of anyone's birthday cakes, so I guess that includes mine too LOL). The plus side was I got to choose the design that I wanted and for this year I requested to have it made simple and I really love the way it turned at the end so this got to be one of my most favorite birthday cakes ever!

Now let's talk about how I passed the day, shall we? First thing to be grateful for was.. it was a public holiday so I assumed that the first present I received was a day-off to rest. REALLY REALLY THANKFUL for that, God knew just how much I needed it. Took my brother and sister to a two-hours KTV session at the afternoon and I had fun too since it's been pretty long since the last time I went on a karaoke, especially with them siblings.

Came home from the karaoke and found out my friends' cars parked outside my house, really couldn't be more thankful to have people who cared for you and willing to spare time just to brighten up your day, don't you agree? If you guys are reading this, thank you, really thank you :')

Oh, this also was the first time I celebrated birthday at home after quite some time, the last one I think was 4 years ago when I turned 22 (man, time flies!). Our family ritual on birthdays was to go on a 'special' dinner together (actually it's a normal dinner lah, just in purpose of celebrating birthday LOL), so we did so and after that got home then.. family photo session!

At this 'official' age of 26, I'm actually quite happy about the way I react to birthdays. I no longer see it as something so terrifying, scary or even too exciting. No more freaking out about turning 'old', no more feeling sad because some people whom I expected to remember didn't do, because I realized that birthday is actually just another normal day. But of course, it's a good reminder on how God has delivered us through another year of blessings :)

There's nothing much on my birthday wish list, but I do wish for my existence to always bring more positive impact to others, I pray that though I am (still and will always be) far from perfect, that would not be an obstacle for God to use me to share blessings with more people. Hopefully this wouldn't be too much to ask.

What future may bring can always remain mystery, but with such big God who's able to do anything and has never failed to show his great love, I think we're pretty safe to say that I have nothing to worry about. So I guess.. let's rock on twenty six?

Planning Your First Trip To Japan - What You Might Not Know

If you have been following my Instagram, then you must have known that I just spent my semester break at Japan, together along with my family. I had been planning to take a lot of photos and videos so I could make some exciting blog posts or even vlogs, but the 'good' news was my camera kept giving me errors. This really messed up my mood that I didn't even bother to take pictures anymore, even with my phone camera, so I don't really have photos to share with you about the trip #booooooooooo.

But I DO want to share some information that I have about preparing your first trip ever to Japan because before I went there, I thought that traveling there would be overwhelming since I had no idea on what to expect and how it was like there. So, I thought it would be pretty helpful if I can share things that I know to those of you who had the desire to travel there without the help from tour agents. 

I will also leave some of the useful links I found when I was doing my research while preparing for the trip, it might save up some of your time not having to Google for everything because I had done it for you :))

PS. Click on the pictures for image source/credit.

Before buying your tickets, you'll have to know that there are some major airports in Japan which were Narita Airport (Tokyo),  Haneda Airport (Tokyo) and Kansai Airport (Osaka). If you plan to visit Tokyo first, note that Narita is pretty far from the central Tokyo, but you can use N'EX (Narita Express) train or Airport Limousine Bus (despite the name, it's actually just a normal bus) to get to your destination in the city.

Lacking information about this, I bought the tickets of JAL (Japan Airlines) via Kuala Lumpur which arrived and departed from Narita, so I had to get back to Tokyo again before going back, which now I believe wasn't quite the best way. If I were to do it again, I'd buy the tickets which depart from different airports, for example: arriving at Narita and departing from Kansai, or the other way so I wouldn't have to go back to the same city just to catch my flight back.

Speaking about tickets, I got mine at JAL at the rate of around IDR 4,000,000 which I believe wasn't the cheapest one, but I really thought it was a pretty good deal; 7 hours flight on JAL was pretty bearable and they serve you drinks non-stop (plus, they served you Haagen Dasz too! LOL). You can find a lot of cheaper tickets online but if I can give you a suggestion, if you can, don't use low-cost carrier airlines because trust me 7 hours on a tiny space like an airplane was torturing. Just add just a little budget on your flight and I promise, it'll be worth it (back pain and fatigue don't make good friends on holiday, right?).

Oh right, one last tip about this, try to avoid midnight flights because I tell you ya, it is really energy draining. Yep, even when you think that it would save you a night on your accommodation booking - been there, done that.

If you owned yourself an E-Paspor, you are eligible for visa waiver (bebas visa) and that means you don't need a printed visa to visit Japan (please CMIIW) but you still have to register yourself beforehand. For more information about the visa waiver, you can click on this link.

Now, since I don't own an e-passport, so I'd have to obtain a 'manual' visa. If you're in big cities like Medan, Jakarta, Surabaya, Makassar or Denpasar, lucky for you that you'll be able to apply for the tourist visa by yourself without the help of the tour agents, if you want to (click here for a good and brief explanation how-to and the documents needed). But since I lived in Pekanbaru and there was no Japan embassy here, I chose to let the tour agent take care of that for me.

I used the service from Dwidaya Pekanbaru on this and it cost me around IDR 450,000/person (by May 2017) for a 15 days single entry visa that was valid for 3 months from the day it was issued. The documents needed were the same with the ones you'll need if you're applying it yourself (more about it here). My visa was done around a week after I submitted all the required documents to the agent.

The other agent in Pekanbaru that I know which also handle Japan visa application is Sanel, which I believe the prices were about the same with Dwidaya.

A tip that I got from a friend; if you don't own an e-passport, you can consider applying for an e-passport instead of a visa because they cost about the same. Plus, if you already have the e-passport, you won't have to apply for Japan visa anymore the next time you visit Japan. PS. I didn't do this because the immigration in Pekanbaru hasn't supported e-passport application at the moment (CMIIW).

Hotel rooms in Japan were generally expensive and they're usually not so big (space is luxurious thing there). So I thought for 5 people, the best thing that I can opt for was Airbnb. It was my first experience using the service so I had no idea about how it worked at the beginning.

But thankfully all the three Airbnb places that I booked were just like what they were described and I had no major problem on my total of 7 nights on Airbnb places. Here are some of my top tips while browsing and choosing for the best Airbnb's:

  • Check the location, usually the nearer to the tourist spots, the more expensive it will be, but at the same time if you can save on transportation cost and energy, it might be worth the extra cost. The other hand, good thing about staying in a place quite far from the crowds is you can feel the real neighborhood without all the noisy crowds. Which one is better; your call :)
  • Pictures are deceiving. Hosts have their own way to portray their houses to look spacious and comfortable - the best they could be. Most of the places I booked were a lot smaller than what I thought it would be, actually everything was the same as the pictures, but just.. a lot smaller. So, don't expect for big spacious apartments in Japan with low prices because again.. space is a luxury.
  • Take your time browsing to get the best of your money. By this I mean, try to find a place which provides you the best deal from what you'll pay for. Try to find ones that provide you every basic thing you'll need for your travel like towels, shampoo, soap, hair dryer so that you won't have to carry them from home (well, but if you are a hygiene freak who wouldn't dare to use other people's towel or any other brands of vanities that you don't normally use, it's your absolute right). Most of the Airbnb's now provide portable WiFi device too, which is a great thing, in my opinion.
  • This is probably the most important tip of all: READ THE REVIEWS! In fact, every single one. This is the only way for you to have an image about how your stay will be. One of my friends forgot this one step and found out that the house they rented didn't have a heater (it was on winter!) and ended up booking another hotel room instead.
  • Ask for recommendations from people who had been there. I did too, in fact one of the house we rented was recommended by my sister's friend and we ended up staying there for 4 nights while we were in Tokyo. Because sometimes words from people that we know are just easier to trust, aren't they?

Now if you wish to know the places I rented, here are the three places we booked while we were in Osaka, Kyoto and Tokyo. They all didn't disappoint me but I think the only one I'll be back again if I have the chance is the one in Osaka since the location was excellent and the host also provided every little thing that we didn't even thought we'd need, so I highly recommend it.

If you haven't tried Airbnb service and are interested to, you can click on this link which will give you a free credit worth IDR 350,000 off your first trip. You know that Airbnb can be used worldwide, don't you? Well, you're welcome!

We spent our last night in Japan at a hotel near Tokyo Disneysea which we booked from booking.com and I think it was a pretty good deal; IDR 1,600,000 for a night in a four single beds room (which of course, we fit 5 people in there LOL) at Mitsui Garden Hotel Prana Tokyo Bay. Maybe you'll think, "Hey, it's not that cheap!", well yes it is not that cheap but considering the fact that it was a 4-star hotel and it was very convenient to travel back and forth to Disney parks since they have the FREE shuttle buses, I really think the price was really quite fine. I'm also recommending this hotel if you are interested in staying near Disney parks.

The Japan Rail Pass (JR Pass) is basically just a piece of thick paper which has the superpower to let you get on unlimited rides on trains, buses and ferries that are operated by the JR company and also Shinkansen (Nozomi and Mizuho trains excluded) for a certain period of time (7 or 14 or 21 days from the first day you have chosen). This pass is only available for foreigners and it's better for you to purchase it before you arrived in Japan since if you get it in Japan, it'll cost you way higher!

Question is do you need or do you not need the pass? Well, there are two answers to that; yes, you do and no, you don't. Yes, if you're going to explore a lot of places in different provinces during your visit in Japan. And no, if you're planning to spend quite a time in a city to explore more of it.

Sample case: an ordinary 7 days JR Pass cost around JPY 29,110 at the moment, a single Shinkansen ride from Tokyo Station to Osaka Station cost JPY 14,140 (yes, Shinkansen ride is THAT expensive). So if you're planning to travel back and forth from Tokyo to Osaka then back to Tokyo, it will already cost you around JPY 28,000 so a JR Pass might be a good option for you. But if you're planning to spend a week just exploring Tokyo, I don't think this pass will be necessary. 

My tip for you is before deciding to purchase JR Pass, do plan your itinerary before getting one so you can decide what's best for you. The other quite useful tip is: Shinkansen isn't the only option to travel around cities in Japan, you can check on flight tickets because sometimes it can be cheaper than a single Shinkansen ride and they took about the same time, for example: flight tickets from Tokyo to Osaka a lot of times are waaaay cheaper than Shinkansen.

Click here for more information about JR Pass, and here on how to use it.

Oh, I almost forgot. I got mine at Kenikura on Tokopedia at the rate IDR 3,229,000 (around JPY 26,908 by May 2017) and so far that was one of the best deal that I've found on the internet. The price may differ from time to time because of the currency exchange value. Once you purchase, you'll get a paper that they call Exchange Order and when you reach Japan, find the nearest JR East Travel Service Center to exchange it with your real pass.

While in big cities in Japan, you'll sometimes need to use prepaid card so you can avoid buying single journey tickets every time you're heading elsewhere, just tap and go. The most popular ones are Suica, Pasmo and 8 others that I can't recall. Not only you can use them for train rides, you can also use them for buses, and even paying at convenience stores. For more detailed information about these cards, click on this link.

I personally did not get myself any of these cards because I have found an even greater alternatives to travel around the city, which is what we'll be talking on the next point...

Transportation cost is definitely one thing you'll be spending your budget most since transporting in Japan is quite expensive, but I was surprised on how there was almost none of my friends who recommend these passes to me and when I told them about this, they too were surprised to know that such things existed.

Japan is a very visitor-friendly country and they have made traveling so much easier for foreigners like us. Most of the big and also touristy cities provide passes that enable you to travel unlimited around certain cities using either buses or metro trains at a very inexpensive cost! So my tip for this point is to do research first before you go to check if the city you're visitting have any kinds of tourist pass.

The ones that I have purchased were Kyoto City Bus 1 Day Pass and Nara City Bus 1 Day Pass that both cost JPY 500/pass. I personally think it was a really good deal since a single ride already cost you JPY 230, so if you just hop on the buses for 3 times in a day, you'd already be saving money!

Now the one that I highly highly recommend is.. Tokyo Subway Ticket! This ticket covers UNLIMITED rides on certain period of time that you can choose from (24 or 48 or 72 hours since first use) on ALL trains in Tokyo Metro and Toei Line. Trust me, this is what you call a real deal! If you have this card, then you'll be able to save money too if you stay in areas near any Tokyo Metro or Toei line trains and I think these two lines have covered most of the places you'll need to visit in Tokyo (for other lines you'll still have to buy single ride journey tickets).

I purchased my 72 hours ticket at an app called Klook. After I got the confirmation, all I had to do was to exchange it with the real ticket (it was in a card form) at the designated places when I reached Japan. For this ticket, you don't really have to purchase it outside Japan, you can purchase it when you're already there but then you'll have to show your passport since this ticket is also only available for foreigners (more information here).

This is another crucial thing while traveling, in my very own opinion. Pocket WiFi has saved me from unnecessary getting lost experiences and of course.. keeping my Instagram stories updated all the time LOL. I'll also recommend you the WiFi rental service that I have used: Jetfi. Their prices are very competitive, but the most important thing is.. it provided us UNLIMITED data usage in Japan (up to 5 devices) and their speed was pretty amazing (in my opinion, even better than my house's WiFi speed LOL). So if you have plans visiting Japan, you can check them out. 

If you are wondering, free WiFi wasn't that easy to find/access at Japan, so I really wouldn't rely on getting free WiFi service. Just rent a pocket device, or get a SIM card if you want to.

Of course, this one will be one of the most important part of your trip. I do suggest you to make an itinerary before arriving so you can make the most of the precious time you have there. Do research about trains or subway routes too and it will be a great help to know how to reach your destination and how long it will take you.

One other thing that I really recommend you to do is to come earlier in the morning to those mainstream tourist spots to avoid the crowds. Some spots are open public for 24 hours, like Fushimi Inari Shrine and Arashiyama Bamboo Forrest in Kyoto so you can make a good use of that. I arrived pretty early at those two places and thanks to that, I can take some pretty good photos (of myself, of course) without any people as the background. 

Now, here are some of the best websites/apps/links that I found helpful while I was planning my itinerary:

  • Hyperdia shows you the route from one station to another and how much it costs, also the timetable of the railway and flights in Japan. 
  • Google Maps will be your best friend while in Japan, you know what it does.
  • japan-guide.com gives you great information about any tourist spots that you want to visit, including historical background, opening hours, ticketing price, etc etc.
  • TOKYOCHEAPO for tips on how to travel on budget around Tokyo areas.
  • AccuWeather to check on pretty accurate weather forecast in Japan.
  • tdrnavi for Tokyo Disneyland or Disneysea crowd calendar, so you can decide which is the best day (read: the least crowded) to visit the parks.
  • Klook has some of the best deals for Disney parks tickets (the cheapest I could find) and also others that you might be interested in (pocket WiFi rental, USJ tickets, city passes, one day city tour etc), not only for Japan but also several other countries in Asia. Highly recommended!
  • This article about seasons in Japan and best time to visit.

Before I went there I really had no idea at all about the places but thanks to reading blogs and watching YouTube videos, at least I had an image of what I'd have to expect. Here are some blogs that have helped me plan my itinerary better: Jane From The Blog, Catatan Nyempil Kalau Lagi Ada Waktu, House of Fun, ANAKJAJAN.COM and I think I had read waaaaaaay more but these are the ones that I can recall at the moment. Do check them out too if you are interested.

There is also this one YouTube channel that I found really helpful and informative but is not really getting the attention that it deserves: internationally ME. I believe this could be a great source of information for you who wished to know more about Japan, even if you're not planning to visit :)

By the way, if there's any of you who's interested in my itinerary, I'll be very generous to share it with you LOL. Click here to view and feel free to use it as reference if you'd like to. I think my itinerary was pretty doable and not too energy-draining, and for a first time visit, I think it has covered some of the most mainstream/must visit places in Osaka, Kyoto, Nara and Tokyo

I also used an additional one day Mount Fuji - Hakone tour service from JTB Sunrise that I booked also from Kenikura. I was with family and I wasn't feeling too confident with taking them myself to see Fuji so I went with the day tour. The service cost us IDR 1,635,000/person and overall it was a pretty good service. But since it was with a group, we couldn't stay too long in a place to enjoy it and we were taken to too many souvenir places. Did we manage to see Mount Fuji? Oh, no we didn't. The weather went bad on the day of the tour so the mountain decided to hide behind the clouds. It's okay, it's just another excuse for us for having to come back again to see Fuji :))

At this last point I'll let you know some of the random things that I found out during my trip, who might just know it can be useful for you:
  • It's really difficult to find trash cans in Japan. I heard that it was because Japanese doesn't have the habit to eat/drink while walking, also trash management (is that even how people call it) in Japan was really strict. You have to separate garbage according to its category, like burnable/non burnable etc etc.
  • Knowing Chinese characters does you great help (note: Chinese characters, not knowing how to talk in the language). Most of the Japanese signs are adapted from Chinese characters so even though you don't know how to pronounce it, you'll at least know what it means.
  • Japanese are super friendly, they'll try their best to help you out if they can. So don't hesitate to ask even with super limited body language :))
  • Bring a coin purse because they'll give you a lot of small changes in coins.
  • Tokyo Banana is overrated. Try Royce' Potatochip. Oh, and Pablo's mini cheese tart, OMG I swear it's sooooooo good!

Phew, that was surely a one long post, wasn't it? Did any of you really read all the way until here though? These are all I can come up with at the moment and if I have more information later, I'll probably update it. If there's anything more that I can help you with, you can let me know and I'll try to help as I can. I know I am no expert about this but sharing what I know does no harm to anyone, right?

Japan is such a magnificent country that I bet if you have been there once, you'll want to go there again. So if you haven't visited Japan yet, put it on your to-go-list and I can guarantee that you won't regret it. If you enjoy this post, you can let me know in the comments so I can at least feel happy because someone appreciates my hard work LOL. Well, until the next posts then, arigatou gozaimasu!

The Meetups

Soooooo a few weeks ago, I made a not-so spontaneous trip to Jakarta because one of my good friends, Tiffany,just got married (yes, this kiddo on the photo above is a married woman already!) and since I couldn't make it to her wedding matrimony, I thought I'd show up at her farewell party (she's moving to Japan with her husband) as a surprise for her. Now, did the surprise work out?

The party was supposed to be held on Monday so I flew to Jakarta on Saturday to spend the weekend. Now the difficult part was to make sure my coming was kept secret so I didn't tell too many people about it. Uri dongsaeng, Etin, kindly picked me up at the airport and took me for a baso penyet lunch (yum!) and we spent time catching up together before we went on a fellowship with our Guangzhou friends, and that was how I spent my first day at the town.

On the Sunday, me and Meishia went on a morning Sunday service and then went on another meetup with my bichis; Jane and Kina (minus Cai who's currently abroad studying at China) and I finally met Baby Josh again! The last time I saw him, he was just a tiny newborn and now I couldn't even manage to hold him for too long because he's gotten so big already!

Though it was quite a short meetup, but I was glad I got to spend time with them and catch up a bit. Hopefully it won't be too long before the next one!

Now, to the highlight of the trip, the surprise plan! Gladly saying, it did work, so I managed to surprise Mrs. Mandias and I was thankful I could spend the night with my dear old colleagues and had some great time together, PLUS I got a really great news where one of my good sisters, Marcella, told me that she's taken already! God knows how much I had been waiting to hear that haha and plus the news came with a hilarious plot twist too :)))))

Spent the last day with my sisters, Felly and Meishia, had lunch together with their mom and aunties and also played a bit with (the super cute baby boss) Ken and I was really really thankful for them for treating me like a family, for ALWAYS have treated me like one.

Not too much blabbering for me this time, I just wanted to make sure this story got into this blog because I think they were so worth-cherishing and worth-remembering. Last but not least, I want to thank these people for making the short trip very memorable for me. Ci Meishia for letting me invade the right side of her bed and always making me feel like a loved sister, Etin for sparing her whole day to blab and laugh with me, and also for the special gift (ditunggu janji ke PKU-nya!), Jane and Kina too for never failing to give me well-spent quality time together, and also shout out to Ci Marcella who had helped me a lot with this surprise trip and also for the good news you gave me LOL. Until next time, fellas!

My Two Cents on "13 Reasons Why"

I know I don't normally write reviews about anything, but recently I just finished this new Netflix series called "13 Reasons Why" which apparently gained quite a lot of great feedback from people who watched it, and I too decided to give it a go because some of my friends who I considered intellectual (though most of the time also mentally-ill, LOL sorry guys but you know it's true) recommended it to me and said it was a must watch. And if I managed to finish all the 13 parts in 2 days, I'd have to admit that what they said was legit.

"13 Reasons Why" was a Netflix series adapted from a novel with the same title written by Jay Asher. The main story line was about Hannah Baker, a high school sophomore who decided to gave up her life by doing suicide. After she died, she left some messages by recording them into 7 tapes which each side of the tape was dedicated to the person who was the reason behind her decision of ending her own life.

This series has brought me on an emotion roller coaster which I love, but also hate at the same time. At first, I wanted to hate Hannah for being such a drama queen for exaggerating on everything but when I listened to what she had to say on the last tapes, my heart broke together with hers and all I wanted to do was give her a big hug and bring her back to life.

Each tape will make you understand better why someone could actually wish to stop feeling everything and give up living. Those small things that we may thought didn't really matter, they actually can have the power to do all the things we can never imagine to other people.

Since I'm not going to spoil every detail of the series here, I'll just share some of the points that I could pick from the  tapes that Hannah has passed down:

1. The world is already such a messed place. I initially planned to use a much more explicit word for the adjective, but for now I think I'd settle with this one. Every problem portrayed in this series was so real and those were only ones that happen to ONLY high school students who haven't really experienced the 'real world'. Plus, the habit of it which worshiped the 'cool people' just because of how they present themselves and ditched those who don't belong to the group was kinda making me sick (referring to the scene where Bryce got all the recognition and people love him when he was just one freaking pathetic person inside). That is why guys, the least we can do to help this world is don't be such jerks who ruin people's lives by their existence, we already have enough of them.

2. Apparently, it's not only what we do that can hurt other people, what we don't do can sometimes bring pain too. How many times have we been hesitant to do something just because we don't have enough guts to do it, or just because we were too shy? When your heart moves you to do something good to other people, just do it because we'll never know if they needed it. Sometimes, just a simple one second 'hi' can brighten up someone's whole day.

3. Concealing what you feel inside does no good, share them with others. Name it happiness, grief, excitement, fear, anything you can feel. Maybe not to everyone, but just one or a few people will do. Please, never feel like you're alone in this world, because you are not (literally, and figuratively).

4. Regret never make good friends with anyone. Avoid it if you can, but when what's done is done, move forward, do better and make sure such thing won't ever happen again to any other people; it's the only option available.

5. Everything.. affects everything. It probably will always remain mystery how everything in this world is actually connected one to another in anyway possible. But I do believe that when what we do actually can bring impact to other things, then the rightest thing to do is just do the best we can whenever possible, right? It may be impossible to do all the time but at least we can try, can't we?

So, as a conclusion, will I recommend this series? Man, when I, who don't write much, dedicated a whole blog post only for this, you know the answer already. I love the fact that this series doesn't revolve around silly teenagers love story (let the K-drama do this for us) and bring us to another point of view that maybe never came across our mind before, Watch it but be prepared for explicit words and scenes that probably may be inappropriate for under-aged kids and narrow-minded people.

Have you heard about "13 Reasons Why" before, or have you watched the series? If you have, you can share me your thoughts about it and I'd love to hear them! Thank you for reading this random scratch here, hope you have a good Sunday!

The Rainbow Blocks - 2017 HK Photo Diary Pt. III

The sun’s finally out on my last day here in Hong Kong. We decided to start the day by having the national breakfast with local style: dim sum! Luckily we found a dim sum place nearby and when I saw that all who ate there were the local elders, I just knew we found the right place.

One interesting experience was since all who ate there were locals, all the waiters don’t understand any English, so it was pretty confusing for us to make order or even finding a seat (apparently my Mandarin skills were not quite useful while I was there). Finally, we were seated together with one man, aged around 80 and guess what; he was with his Indonesian personal assistant! So the kind lady helped us made the order and the good man even offered to treat us breakfast! But we politely declined it since we just couldn’t afford to accept the treat after all the helps we had been receiving, but we really were so thankful!

We don’t have a fixed itinerary for this day but there was this one place that we wanted to go because it’s pretty; Choi Hung Estate. It was one of the oldest public housing estates in Hong Kong and it’s famous because of the colorful blocks (choi hung itself literally means rainbow).

If you want to get here, get off at Choi Hung station and the building was just at the station’s exit. Best spot to take pictures was at the basketball court which was prettily hidden; it’s located on the parking lot’s rooftop so if you see the parking lot, you’ll find the basketball court at the top of the parking building. There’s nothing to do here besides taking pictures at the basketball court though, so if you are on a tight schedule, you might want to skip this. But if you have plenty of leisure time, this place will be a great spot for taking the perfect Instagram post!

The last destination of my this trip was the Ani-Com Park @ Harbour Fun, located near Hong Kong Convention Center in Wan Chai. We were supposed to go here on the second day while we were visiting Wan Chai but somehow we skipped it so we went back the next day for it.

After the long walks, we took the bus and got off at Causeway Bay for a late lunch and we picked Yoshinoya for its beef bowl. We usually shared all the meals we had while in HK but just that one time everyone finished their bowls because we were all THAT starving LOL. Sadly after lunch I had to say goodbye to the girls because my flight was at the night of the same day. So we parted as I headed to the airport and the girls continued their own adventure.

Just like the time when I departed to HK, I needed to make a transit at KLIA2 and this time it was a 10 FREAKING HOURS transit. I didn’t remember how I managed to survive those crazy 10 hours, but I was just thankful I did. This trip has been a one very fun and memorable, I am so thankful I got to spend the days with girls and we really laughed a lot. I am thankful that they appreciate even my coldest jokes (sometimes I even wonder how I came up with such bad jokes) and grateful that I have such good yet crazy friends.

Now as a closing… I made a vlog! Well, a mini-vlog may be more suitable, since I didn’t talk too much on the video; it’s still very awkward for me to speak by myself holding the camera, but I think for a first time vlogging, I think this was pretty fine. So, what do you think? Is it acceptable, or do you think I should stop and never make these kinds of video ever again? LOL. Let me know what you think and I’ll be very thankful :)

Well, that marked the end of my short Hong Kong trip this year, thank you for any of you who have been following my journey and hopefully I’ll be able to post again soon. If you want to view all the posts about this Hong Kong journey, click here and check out all other posts too, if you haven’t. Take care and see you next time!

Check out the other parts of my Hong Kong travel series here:
- Part I: A Chilly Day in The Spring
- Part II: My Happy Place